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Don Vitalle Ministries

Happiness is a cupcake. Joy is bread.

  • Writer: Don Vitalle
    Don Vitalle
  • Apr 12
  • 5 min read

Updated: Aug 18


Happiness and joy superimposed onto one face.

Happiness is a delicious cupcake, sweet and satisfying but fleeting. You enjoy it at the moment, savoring every bite, but soon it's gone, leaving you with a pleasant memory, a few crumbs, and maybe a smudge of chocolate icing on your chin.


Joy, on the other hand, is like a hearty loaf of bread. It's nourishing and sustaining, providing you with a lasting sense of fulfillment. You can share it with others, and it helps you navigate the ups and downs of life.


So, while happiness is a quick treat that brightens your day, joy is the wholesome goodness that keeps you smiling long after the cupcake is gone.


These days, the cultural focus and trends promoted by anonymous influencers center around daily "cupcakes." Bobby McFerrin's song "Don't Worry, Be Happy" encapsulates this sentiment. The idea is that happiness is readily attainable through simple pleasures, like enjoying a cupcake. There's no need to strive for deeper joy, which requires effort. Instead, people are encouraged to indulge in whatever brings them momentary happiness. There are different "cupcakes" for different people, but the common thread is that happiness often revolves around material possessions. Whether it's wealth, fame, or power, seeking and finding these things is believed to bring happiness. However, if you peek behind the velvet curtain of the rich and famous, you might discover that their personal "bakery" is more like a cupcake mirage. They promise trays of delicious treats, but all you find are a few stale crumbs and a lot of empty promises. Nary a "Twinkie" in sight.


That's the material world. But you and I are not supposed to be a "Material Girl," or guy for that matter. As children of the Most High God, we should seek His Kingdom. We don't pray, "Give us this day our daily cupcake." We ask God for bread, real sustenance —both spiritual and physical —to nourish us as we travel through our brief time on this planet. "Happy" is good, don't get me wrong. But "happy" can never replace "joy" in the eternal scheme of things.


In the Bible, joy is often portrayed as a profound, enduring contentment rooted in God's presence, grace, and salvation, rather than fleeting emotions or external circumstances. 


Biblical Perspectives on Joy:

  • Source of Joy: The Bible emphasizes that true joy originates from God, not worldly possessions or achievements. When you seek the purest form of something, you go directly to its source. You look for a supply that is as close to the origin as possible. The mountain spring at the base of the hill is not as pure as it was 5000 feet up. It hasn't trickled all that way without picking up sediment and other deposits gathered along its journey downward. To find true joy in its purest form, we must look to the Creator of the Universe, humanity's source.

  • Joy in God's Presence: David says in Psalm 16:11, "Thou wilt show me the path of life: in thy presence is fullness of joy; At thy right hand are pleasures for evermore." This verse highlights the joy found in being in God's presence. When we pray, we can enter His presence with thanksgiving and praise. When we live our whole life as a prayer, we can spend it in the fullness of joy, regardless of illness or difficulties, despite worldly dilemmas or religious inconsistencies. Our world seems to be in turmoil. David's world was also in chaos, but David understood genuine joy. He knew that God had revealed his purpose to him, and in His presence, there was complete, unfiltered joy, like water from the freshest mountain spring. In addition, David knew that His Father held unimaginable pleasures for him in paradise.

  • Joy as a Fruit of the Spirit: Joy is often mentioned as one of the fruits of the Holy Spirit, alongside love, peace, patience, kindness, and goodness. If we are born again, we have a veritable fruit market at our fingertips. There is an unending supply for us to enjoy, provided we know how to harvest it. When we accept Jesus as our Lord and Savior, the Holy Spirit arrives on the scene with His basket of abundance. These fruits are ripe and plentiful, more than enough to share with others.

  • Joy in Salvation: The Bible connects joy with salvation, forgiveness, and a right relationship with God. It's often presented as a natural response to God's grace, love, and mercy. When we meditate on God's love for us, we begin to experience a deeper sense of contentment, one that is far more profound than the fleeting veneer of happiness. We eat of the Bread of Life, commemorating our Lord's sacrifice for you and me. But for us in the here and now, that's just an appetizer. The actual feast starts in the there and then when our salvation is fulfilled, and we return to the paradise that was always intended for us.

  • Joy in Trials: Even in difficult times, the Bible encourages believers to find joy in knowing that God is with them and their faith will be strengthened. Hebrews 12:2 says, "Looking to Jesus the author and finisher of our faith; Who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross, despising the shame, and is set down at the right hand of the throne of God."


    Examples in the Psalms: 

  • Psalm 118:15: "The voice of rejoicing and salvation is in the tabernacles of the righteous: the right hand of the Lord doeth valiantly." This psalm expresses the joy of God's people when they see what He has done for them.

  • Psalm 30:5: "For his anger endureth but a moment; In his favor his life: weeping may endure for a night, but joy cometh in the morning."

  • Psalm 32:11: "Be glad in the Lord, and rejoice, ye righteous: and shout for joy, all ye that are upright in heart."

  • Psalm 51:12: "Restore to me the joy of thy salvation; And uphold me with thy free spirit." David's prayer for the restoration of his joy after acknowledging his sins.

  • Psalm 126:1-3: "When the Lord turned again the captivity of Zion, we were like them that dream. Then was our mouth filled with laughter, and our tongue with singing: then said they among the heathen, ‘The Lord hath done great things for them.' The Lord hath done great things for us; of which we are glad." These verses express the joy of the Israelites upon their return from exile.


    Other Relevant Verses: 

  • Proverbs 10:28: "The hope of the righteous shall be gladness: but the expectation of the wicked shall perish."

  • Hebrews 12:2: "Looking to Jesus the author and finisher of her of our faith; Who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross, despising the shame, and to set down at the right hand of the throne of God."

  • And finally, 1 Thessalonians 5:16: "Rejoice evermore."


I love cupcakes, but the sugar high doesn't last too long. The bread of life nourishes our souls and connects us to a higher purpose, guiding us toward enduring contentment and peace.

 

All Scripture was taken from the World English Bible version.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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